104_Kass_Thomas === Kass: Well, one of the things that I would say is that fear is, is a particular vibration and it could, in a lot of times it locks us in. You know, and so the change that is occurring, we're not actually even engaging with because we're all locked up inside. Right? So what I call fear, and this is a great question using the access to what I call fear is a midway stock to excitement. And excitement and fear. They sort of have the same vibe, you know, however, we stop it, we stop the excitement and it gets locked in and it can even cause discomfort in our bodies. So a question that you can ask yourself and you don't need an answer for this, but it might show up for you. So if I weren't distracting myself, With fear, what is the excitement that'd be aware of? === Monica: Welcome to the Revelation Project Podcast. I'm Monica Rogers, and this podcast is intended to disrupt the trance of unworthiness and to guide women, to remember and reveal the truth of who we are. We say that life is a revelation project and what gets revealed gets healed. Hello everyone and welcome to another episode of the Revelation Project Podcast today I'm with Kass Thomas. Kass is a successful business entrepreneur and communication expert, the depth and range of her life and career experiences inspire people to explore more choices and find the changes they're looking for. It's her mission in life to strengthen the unity of choice and change. She inspires clients to discover their unique. Brand of magic as a bestselling author, Kass recently released her new book, dancing with riches, a self-empowerment manual to encourage readers, to change tracks. If the journey they're on, isn't working for them within the pages of this book, readers will find a guide to transform negative into positive and to come through. Even in limiting situations, her non-judgemental demeanor creates a safe space for many to express themselves with ease. She is a catalyst for multicultural inclusion cast believes that there is so much more that unites us than separates us. Join me in welcoming cast Thomas. Hey. I am so good. And I just want to say to our listeners, that cast is part of the access consciousness family. And I know so many of you have loved listening to previous episodes with several of, you know, the leadership group in access consciousness. So again, like it's just such a great pleasure to have. Kass: It's a great pleasure to be here with you and to be here on the planet at this, you know, this time of change, you know? Monica: Oh yeah. Kass: Definitely sometimes not so comfortable for people when things are changing, but what invitation can we be for people to have to be in step with the energy of change and to have more ease with it, even if it's not easy that's right. Even if it's not easy. Monica: Well, and I, I love that expression. That was a big pivot for me, which is, this is all happening for us. Not to us. Kass: Absolutely. Absolutely. And it's about looking at things from a different perspective. We can be observers of our life, which is great. This is a nice perspective, but it's nice to actually engage with our lives, you know, so that we know that each and every time we make some choice or we call it often decisions, right. It's going to create something. But it's willing to choose again and choose again, choose again. You can really activate that, uh, that change and really turn difficulty into ease and negative into positive and stillwaters into a flow. So, yeah. Monica: And Kass, I immediately want to jump in and ask you, like, when was that turning point for you or were you always like that? Kass: You know, Who we are right at the moment, or we know who we were. Monica: We know who we were. Yes, exactly. Kass: We know who we were. So there's been more than one turning point, really for me, because somebody says, uh, when did you start exploring consciousness or even engaging with things that weren't just literal or. And I just remember as a kid, my sister and I, we would go, uh, in Boston, Massachusetts to this woman, I don't even remember what she looked like. I just remember the cup of tea that once you drink it, she turned the tea cup over, read the tea leaves for you, you know, but, um, really the, one of the moments of change was choosing at 18, uh, where and how I would like to continue my life stay in Boston, which is full of amazing universities or to step out. Into the world. And, uh, I moved to New York and did, yeah, my undergraduate first marriage, first career in New York and graduate school as well. So, and that was, um, that was a turning point and also a turning point when I chose to leave that marriage, that career and that city and move and that country and move to Italy and, and, uh, and live in Rome. And, uh, and also after being here also changing again, a turning point where okay. The work I'm doing is great. The business I have is okay. The license relationship and the friendships are okay. And I would like more, you know, sometimes always, you know, if we're not, we're being grateful for what and who shows up in our lives and not necessarily settling down or settling in being grateful and seeing, you know, this great access. What else is possible. Monica: What else is possible? Kass: Thank you, God. Thank you universe. Thank you. Beautiful. And what else is possible and how does it get Kass better than this? And being willing to explore and keep, keep living your life? Not just having a life, but living it, engaging with it. Yeah. Monica: Kass might laugh at this. Somebody asked me recently. I've been looking at moving and they said, well, are you trying to find your forever home? And I, and I stopped breathing for a minute. I was like, no, you know, like, I am not looking for my forever home. I am never looking for my forever home. Like to me that feels like just like just settling or something. You know, it's just funny how I, my body responded to that. Exactly. Kass: Exactly. And also, you know, it's, um, yeah, forever. And you can think in your mind for the next 10 seconds. Yeah. Forever for it for now. Yeah. Sometimes people, you know, they're not able to hear everything that you say, if you're not using a language that they're familiar with it, you know, so you can, we talked about changing tracks and you mentioned that. We're heading in a direction. And so we're not simultaneously perhaps going north and south at the same time. However we choose and we're present a hundred percent with that. So you're changing a hundred percent present. The new home more than your city or where you are so that you can enjoy it completely. And even if a year later, or six months later, you change it, choose to change. You've actually been willing to embrace everything and everyone that's there. You know what I mean? Monica: I absolutely know. Kass: So that, that forever. Yeah, it reminds me of a prince song. Monica: Yeah. Which one? I loved prince Kass: prince, prince. That's a mighty long time something else happened is you can always Monica: see the sun. Yes. Kass: Oh, I bet shrink in Beverly Hills. You know, the one, Monica: You know, I saw him in Detroit, he was my first big concert and what a concert and my father would sat at the, you know, reading the Detroit free press the next morning and said, whoever, let their kids go to this is insane. And, um, and my mother just puts her hands over her lips, you know, puts her finger over her lips, like, shh. 'cause she knew I had gone. She had said yes. So funny. Kass: Oh, your dad didn't know. Monica: Oh, hell no. Kass: I saw him met the Madison square garden too. It was a round round stage there. And just, Monica: I will never forget that. I think. And I was young. I was like 13. So it was quite something to be able to go to that. Kass: How many people, you know, so many, I love music, you know, I just am working on a song called dancing with bitches from my book. Monica: All right. And I want to know more about that. Like title. Tell me more. Yeah, Kass: Well, a lot of times we don't acknowledge some of the talents and abilities, some of the capacities, some of the wisdom, you know, that we have, um, that is not something tangible or. Do you know what it is part of the, the wealth of our capacities and it doesn't have to be tangible money wealth, and the riches of your lives are the unique qualities that you are. You did read that your unique brand of magic. Just being an invitation. That's one of my capacities just to actually see that beyond the surface or the mask or the veil that somebody is trying to be in stand up and be just to see what's delicious, delightful, and unique about them, you know? And so that is really something that I love to invite people to acknowledge about themselves and explore. Oh yeah. Monica: And it's, you know, a lot of what I talk about here on this podcast is the unbecoming process, you know, and how we unbecome from everything the world wanted us to be, to become who we really are. And that's just such a beautiful process because shedding those layers. You know, it's like of the, not us is such a liberating and joyful really. I mean, I know it's not always joyful, but when you get all that off, you, you realize that unbearable lightness of being, you know, of that, that kind of was always the movie title to me. But now I actually get what it means. Kass: I love that on becoming also what it, uh, saying that it probably puts a question, um, you know, a tweak in peoples minds, which are often very structured and have answers and definitions and you know, uh, not a linear process. So when you say becoming yes. Okay. When you say I'm becoming yeah, that, that. Allows, what is just what you were saying? Just the title alone allows that sort of all those sorts of blocks and barriers around that joy to go away and be frozen for a moment so that you can invite that joy out. So thank you for that. I love that. Monica: Well, and then that is everybody's revelation project. Isn't it? It's like when we reveal and when we unbecome from what we're not, and we feel. You know, again, so, so many of us have been taught to stifle that, to suppress that. And it's like, when we're truly back in touch with the essence of who we are, it's like that revelation process is so healing. So like reveal feel heal. Right? All of that is part of, I think, why we come here to this crazy place. Kass: We've got to do some poetry together. I love that reveal heal. And also that unbecoming. I mean, just, can I just tell you what pops for me when you say that? Because it's also inviting people to recognize that it's not that you're what you're becoming is more of value than who you are already. So oftentimes when we're trying to become something right, we're on a predetermined track and on a predetermined destination that if we don't feel that we're already there, it's somebody else, second a destination. So the unbecoming is actually, um, being willing to acknowledge that you are the greatness of you already. And so what do is to expand that greatness. Um, but it's not that you have to become something different. Monica: Yeah. Well, and I also seeing, as we're now just getting into this, it also reminds me of your clearing exercise that you all do. In Access Consciousness, and it's like the Pod and POC, the uncreation right. Or in that moment, we could unbecome whatever we did in a moment or a lifetime worth of, what's not us, Kass: All the fixed points of view that we have about what and who we should be, where, and when we should go. Often, because if we do not reach what we have set as our destination, then how much do we go into the wrongness of us and how much more, um, do you have to really do. Get back up when you have put yourself down. Monica: Yeah. Kass: What that is the clearing statement and it's available on the clearing statement.com with that clearing statement is about an access is everywhere. You have had a fixed point of view about what was right or what was wrong or what was good or what was bad. It's asking you to go point of creation when you first determined it, that way, where you first set your becoming, you know what I mean, destiny. And the moment before you did that, who are you? What were you, where were you? And so opening. Again, that childlike wonder, uh, why Austin invite people. Um, and I do talk about this in the book too. You know, what were you aware of? Uh, what was your inspiration when you were eight years old? I started, I mean, Thanks to an awareness. I got at eight years old in my grammar school when a teacher was writing in french on the board. And of course, French is not the language in Rome and it's, you know, a story and it isn't a book about that. But choosing based on. Before any of your becoming, when you were just being Monica: When you were just being you. Yeah. And you were so full of your own enough ness Kass: And you had no. Yeah. And you had no ideas or points of view or, or, or judgements about what you weren't being. If you needed to do or be it was just you being willing to observe and participate in every single thing that showed up before you were slated. So don't say that don't do that. Monica: Yes. And also that playfulness that we had, that we can, that we can tap right back into when we're not. So. You know, in judgment of ourselves and others, you know, it's just like, oh, thank you. I can breathe again. That playful levity, which is something I, the second we connected on zoom, I was like, oh my God, she's so playful. You know, you're just so, so right there. And that to me is like, oh, I, we got this. Like the second somebody brings play to something. I am. All in, like my inner child is jumping up and down, like Kass: Exactly. And the inner child is a part of even, you know, when you're in your eighties or nineties, you know, so abandon that and playing, you know, I get advice from a neighbor. Um, she's the child of my friends, but she's my friend too. And she. Seven now. And she has amazing insights and, uh, and advice. I was going to do a, uh, a zoom. I did a zoom on, um, you know, seven steps to flawless communications with kids. That's my first book, the seven steps. And I had teachers and. Kids from around the world on there. And I was getting ready to go on and I was outside in the garden and she came to the gate and I said, Hey, you know, I'm going to do with this, um, this, uh, zoom on, um, how to communicate with kids. Do you have any advice to give. And she said, well, let me tell you was goodness. Monica: I bet she was so honored. Kass: Oh, she was, she was just so clear to her, you know, like, and you know, when teachers do this and kids raise their hand, you know, this is what I would suggest. I said, one second, let me, let me tell you. How much of that childlike wonder that, that the clarity that you have yes. As you know, before you get everybody's ping Monica: Right. I know. Kass: Yeah. Anyway, it was just amazing. Monica: I love that. I love that. Well, you know, I know that. We were just talking about change and kind of be constant evolution. But I'm wondering if, if you have, like, what would you say to our listeners who fear change? Kass: Well, one of the things that I would say is that fear is, is a particular vibration and it could, in a lot of times it locks us in. You know, and so the change that is occurring, we're not actually even engaging with because we're all locked up inside. Right? So what I call fear, and this is a great question using the access to what I call fear is a midway stock to excitement. And excitement and fear. They sort of have the same vibe, you know, however, we stop it, we stop the excitement and it gets locked in and it can even cause discomfort in our bodies. So a question that you can ask yourself and you don't need an answer for this, but it might show up for you. So if I weren't distracting myself, With fear, what is the excitement that'd be aware of? What is it could enjoy. And so, um, a lot of times it may be opening up and going into unexplored areas, but this is why I say that there's no one like you in the world, you know, you are the best version of you that exists. There's no one who does see better than you. So if some change is showing up in your life, it's thanks to you. And thanks to your weakness. Running away from it. You not only contributing to the expansion and the, the fresh breath and the new breath in your life. You're also that change once you are choosing it and you're engaging with it, then it's a change that already exist for other people to not get fearful of it. Oh, yes. You're going to the moon. Oh, do I have to go to the moon? Nobody's ever been to the moon? I've never heard of anybody going to the moon. Oh, go to the moon. So many people have been there before. Right? What is that change that you can actually. Not necessarily embraced, but engage with and enjoy and ride the wave of that will open up different possibilities in the world. Monica: And you said the word, right? It's like, it, it goes back to kind of that conditioned way that we are taught to engage with change and knowing that. There's a way to play with change. And that is that kind of way that I think we can stretch into, like, what would be possible if I were not afraid? Like you said, like, yeah. And to bring, play to that possibility, like there are options. It's like, it reminds me too of Joe Dispenza's work because it's getting into that feeling of all of the various possibilities in that timeline. Yeah, right. And which one, like, it's like identifying that there's multiple possibilities that are, that are in existence. Yes. So that's that great way. I think that I've learned that access consciousness really kinds of helps us retrain how we engage with the world. Kass: Absolutely. And you know, when we're willing to engage with those, uh, the changes so many more become visible and available to us. And the, one of the, um, the gifts of, um, of access is you do not have to choose them all because when you are actually willing to acknowledge something, right, Then so much more, you know, the universe, God, Allah, Buddha just puts everything out there on a silver platter. And it's like being at a buffet. Would you like to go to a buffet? No. No, no. I just want a little sandwich. Thank you. Okay. There's a sandwich on the buffet, right? All right. So you go onto the buffet table and you say, oh, I love that. Well, let me just take a look at some of the other things and you don't have to choose all the genes that is, uh, available to you. However, when you're willing to. Open up to seeing the various changes. How much can just the existence of all those possibilities support you in choosing that sandwich? One thing and choose it a hundred percent, that new house, right? That new city choose it a hundred percent. Monica: Yeah. I love that. Yeah. I also love playing with what I call the sacred and it's like, then I can have the standard. And, you know, and like we were saying before, I can have the forever house and right. So it doesn't like lock us in, right. That, that, that, and can be, you know, that way of building in that muscle of how good can it get. Kass: Right. And people, you know, want, you know, everything you choose every. Create something sometimes how many people, I mean, how many people honestly are wanting to make the right choice so that they don't have to choose again, how many people are like, I just want it. And how much does that slow us down? Right. And so that choice goes away and then we don't see other choices. And then we don't, we feel wrong because we didn't make a choice fast enough. Yeah. So everything that is just everywhere, you're feeling wrong about it. Just saying, okay. I didn't choose that. What else is possible? What else happens to get any better and see a continuity of possibilities that continually. Present themselves to you is when you start working and engaging with asking questions, um, you really interrupting the solidity of the fixed answer. You know, what, what are you, why are you asking that question? Didn't you get the answer? Yeah. Just asking. What else, what else? You know, so just the choices that you are willing to make, it's so much fun because they don't have, you don't have to make judgements. Is this the right choice? Is this the wrong choice? Right? You don't have to, you know, Series of data that will, this would be the right choice because someone else chose this and they had more success. And then someone else chose this may have more wealth and then someone else chose this. And therefore I'm concluding that this is my decision. No, a lot of times it's like, oh, I'm going to choose to go to dinner with them. Oh, you know what something else came up. I'm so sorry. I I'm sorry for you. I can't come to dinner. I'm going to right. Can I call you back? I'm sorry. Do you still have room for me for dinner? Because I was planning to stay home, but then I got, why don't we just come to you? So how much do we need to have, you know, Um, ducks in a row. Yeah. Monica: Yeah. Kass: Right. What if the ducks start flying? Are you willing to look, uh, in a different direction? So I do know that that, um, that does show up and dancing with the riches of your life, um, means you don't have to stand still and just focus on one of them because the more you're willing to engage with them to have great movement, to be in step with that energy of change, the more. Of your lines that you acknowledge, not only yours, you are willing to actually step up and recognize the riches that other people have. I love that. So boring, the most boring person that you've ever. They must be very different because how much is going on around them and in their lives. And in order to be really boring, they must have a huge talent blocking that out. So what is it that you've decided is not something interesting? But if you're willing to be interested and exploring the riches of your life, you will absolutely be open to the riches of other people's lives. Monica: Well, and also what it brings up for me is that we're always co-creating with the universe, unless we're not. And I love that, that that for me, is the continuous reminder of like, I create, like I create in every moment, as long as I'm willing to explore the possibilities and not get in this fixed place where I just am keeping my head down and just, uh, doing an, a lot of cases, what, uh, what the patriarchal society wants us to do, which is to not be creative and alive, you know, like there's this way that I think we. So we're so unaware of how. What brilliant creators we are. Kass: Yeah. And that guy said that keeping your head down, because we're asking for things to show up in our lives. We're trying to create things in our lives and we're looking down because it's not happening. It's not showing up. Well, it might be showing up, but if you're looking down, how can you see what is showing up and keep and keep looking up. One of the things that you were saying about that is just for me and inspiration is to know that you can't get you wrong. Mm. And, um, Nelson, Mandela, I don't know if you ever heard that said you can't lose you either win or you learn something. Yeah. You know, feeling, oh my goodness, I didn't win. Why didn't I win? We're going down the rabbit hole as opposed to saying, well, okay, what, what else is possible here? What else would I choose? What is the contribution for this? You know, that I could have, I just went, what, what pops for me was how much for me the bird. And they're so funny that when I see a bridge line, I mean, I was in Moscow once in the winter and I looked out the window every morning, you know, step one in my seven steps, show me the magic. I looked out the window. And usually when I do that in Rome, this birds that fly by and I giggle and I laugh, right. Birds were flying by with the snow in Moscow. And I just was hysterical, laughing, you know? And bugs, you know, flies, right? If beer in a room and there's flies and there's a fly only flying around you, what is that fly? Trying to get your attention to? And the moment I say, okay, what is it? What is it? You know, you're bugging me fly. The fly stops? No. So what is it that can inspire you? Is it birds? Bees? Is it flowers? Is it trees up above the stars in the sky? What is it that can inspire you to look beyond whatever is distracting? You like fear or like looking down or like feeling wrong? What is it that can inspire you? Is it breathing? Is it yoga? Is it a question from access? Is it, you know, With the riches over here. Yeah. Thingy, you know? Yeah. And I hope people do that connection with you in the morning. Do you know, I love those questions that you were asking. What did some of the, you know, the adjectives you have for yourself, you know, connect it, connect it. And the more you're connecting, the more. Often you acknowledge, Hey, I'm not connected with myself. Let me take a moment. Yeah. Monica: Kass you, you know, you had talked about, we all have best versions of ourselves and for yourself, when you are sharing the best version of you, what does that. Kass look like, Kass: Yeah. Always with a smile and a, the sparkle in my eyes. Did you mean visually look like, Monica: Well, all of it. Kass: Yeah. Yeah. And also always the sparkle in my eyes that illuminates the. And other people. And so, um, so they see their magic, they are being there, you know, so that's what the, uh, the best version of me is the real version of me. And so when I'm not being mad and I did want to thank you for asking that when it, if you're looking for the best version of you, anyone listening, just. One joke or one image or something that always makes you laugh, put it in your wallet, write it down. And when you are not able to laugh and you know, a joke that you've had forever, as you're not able to lack, you know, you're not connected, you know what I mean? And so do something that will reconnect you with you so that you can always be the best version of you. Yeah. Monica: Kass, I don't know if you noticed. And then we hopped on, there was a screensaver of me and it's me in like full on like belly laughter. And that photo is like my connection to always to that levity within me that, because I think again, like my training ground, right. Growing up, which is something that I'm unbecoming from. Is this like having the weight of the world on my shoulders, right. Like so hard, so serious. Like, and that was true for me when, when I, when I, um, you know, one of the stories I talk about a lot is like, I had forgotten how to laugh. I had forgotten that levity and it was funny. Cause you were talking about even at some point, identifying. Anxiety or fear with excitement. And I remember when I first started getting the life back or this, my spirit back was I thought I was anxious, but you know, the person that was working with me was like, and, um, it actually might be excitement, you know, and I started to just really hold it differently, right? Like to that all of these ways that we can. Reprogram ourselves to. Be the best version of ourselves. And, and I love how you, how you're able to describe that best version of yourself. And that gets to change and shift and grow. But there's, there's so much to celebrate in our everyday lives. And often when I'm working with a client and that client is just in that place of like, nothing is working. I know in that moment, it's like, what do you celebrate? Right now. And it's like, what? Yeah. What are you celebrating right now about all that failure and it's, it just changes the whole trajectory of the conversation. And then it's what are you and what are you grateful for? Right. And then suddenly. Feeling better and they don't even know why they're feeling better, but now they're celebrating themselves. They're feeling grateful. I'm like, that is not the way this conversation started out. Right. It's just like, it's so beautiful when we have these tools. Kass: Absolutely. And when we're willing to accompany people on that journey, you know, from accompany them on those steps that get them to not only step into their lives in a different way and see the world from their perspective, without any barriers or. And begin stepping up and acknowledging, right? Yeah. You were asking that where you were asking them so that they can step out with a level of authenticity of genuine, you know, self-esteem and confidence and see the world and be seen, be heard in a very different way. And it's really just three easy steps to change your life. And I really love that. And. The smile within you. Are you willing to have that shine outside of ? Monica: Yeah. So good. So good. So what resources do you use to stay encouraged to stay in that place of inspiration? Kass: That. Love to be present, to have a presence with myself and my body. So when waking up in the morning, you know, I really have different release that I can act. It doesn't have to always be the same. I've been doing squats for about four years, which I love, but even before getting up, just saying, good morning. And to my body and before thinking about work or getting on the phone or any of that, I've got a beautiful bed with windows, with trees around and, um, and stepping out and saying hello to the sun. And, and there's the, uh, mantra of access, which is all of life. All of life comes to me with ease and glory and not just saying the words, but actually. Being in that space. And one of the things that I love that really connects me, my vibration. Is singing. Yeah. And we all have a voice, you know, some of us, even for don't, don't speak that you have a vibration. So connecting you with that vibration, it might be Laster. It might be, you know, uh, in the morning, this is the way I start my day. And this is the way I've got a three steps program where every month there's a different topic. Every time, step in first, whatever you're doing, your business, your career, your job, your relationships, and then step up. That's my, um, my, my mission to invite people, to be connected with them because that's a contribution to all of us. Yeah. Monica: And when you say step in, right, what you're talking about is like, be present with yourself. Kass: Absolutely. And be willing be like you said, I'm becoming the willingness to see the world from your perspective. I mean, even, you know, with the dancing, with vicious insight, when I do those workshops, it's like one of the first things it's project development of the first. What is it? What are your talents and abilities? And just like you were asking to that client of yours, it's like, maybe we look at it from a different perspective. Okay. What do you think is some of your, you know, the things you're too much of, or too little of that's something I ask people, you know, and, you know, we write all that down and just randomly, and then how can we look at that from a different. And it's, it's so obvious and easy to see it from a different perspective. Well, I'm really concentrated, like just what you were saying about you, the weight of the world on your shoulders. Okay. And how kind is that of you that has includes the world in your life? So is that really a limitation or is that, so this is something I like to engage with and when you, and it doesn't stick. When you don't think of it as something, they do wrong. Monica: That that is such a great distinction because when I really started to love myself, like I really got it was when I realized that distinction between, oh, I always have the world on my shoulders. Turned the phrase, just a tiny bit to look at how much I love the world that I would actually take that on that I would actually for a moment, think that I was somehow responsible for everyone else's wellbeing and happiness. Look at how big my heart is. So it, it just it's it's it just takes the beating out of it for heaven sakes for how can we please stop beating ourselves Kass: And acknowledge, acknowledge what our talents and abilities. Maybe you weren't feeling responsible, but you were willing to be a contribution to all of it and know how. I have a gift that is, then you would say, wait a minute. If I like stumped myself down, because I've got the whole world on my shoulders, then will I continue to be that contribution? I'm willing to be that, what can I do for myself and with myself and with my body that will actually allow me to continue gifting, you know, to the world. Absolutely. That's an incredible. So many people are willing to see the magic and others, but are you willing to see it? Yeah. Once you're willing to see it in you, you know, it exists in others. And I love that you said you, you know, loving yourself and how you treat yourself. And that is such a gift because you're able to see who's. Did she drink themselves with kindness and also to get you with kindness, you know? Monica: Yeah. And another thing that it's bringing up for me that I would do is I would put my hand on my heart and say, I love myself enough to know, you know, and then I would say something about myself. Nice. Right. I love myself enough to know that. You know that I am and whatever that thing was right. Or is, I love myself enough to know that I deserve. Beautiful vacation somewhere, or, you know, a beautiful, nutritious lunch, or, you know, I love myself enough to know that I am worthy of more. I love that it could be anything Kass: I love myself enough to know, and that is a great thing. Every one listening way to wake up in the morning, you know? I love myself enough to know, and Monica: Today is going to be a beautiful day. Yeah, Kass: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I will play with that too. Monica: Thank you totally. And I think that's the thing, you know, again, is there's so many beautiful people out in this world and so many beautiful tools and I love what you've written. I love, you know, you were so kind to send me both books. And I wanted to invite our readers to check them out. If you're not a big, reader what you will love about this is these books are just so compact, but so like full of great, just like I love even some of these titles, right? Like being vital versus making vital. Right. And in sync with judgments, you know, and then it's just a quick chapter. Sex is about receiving so lots of juicy tips in here and it is light. It is heavy. So just, just one of those, if you want to say something more on any of those that I just brought up, anything that comes to mind. Kass: Absolutely. Well, is it lighter? Is it heavy? Is, you know, our, our awareness and our choice is instantaneous. And in some times it's something that we have a choice to make and it's so, you know, we're so nervous about it and we feel like we have to choose the right thing, but if you're willing to go beyond your thinking mind, which is maximum 10% of your brain, Which your brain is a small part of your body. If you're willing to go beyond that and, and receive the gifts from, let's say the universe, right, then all your body will give you the response. And so light and heavy is about just seeing, which is the choice that will create. More lightness for you, more ease for you, more money for you, more, you know, more presence for you. All of that. It makes you feel lighter and it shows up different for everyone, you know? And there is information about that in the book, how the many different ways it shows up, you know, you know me, I give lots of examples from my life and different questions you can ask that will show you that. But what makes you feel like. Especially when you're willing to be connected with you is something that will create more. In your life now and in the future and for the world. And what makes you feel heavy? You know, you, you cannot logically always say, I don't know why I got a, no, it didn't feel really light for me. Now, somebody just asked me, which of these publishers would you like to choose? It's in a language. I don't even know them, but if you'd like energetically, this is the one that sticks out to me. That is exactly the one I wanted. Okay. So yeah. So it makes you, it makes life so much easier when you're willing to say true truth now. Okay. No, not Monica: Well, and I'll give another example to our listeners because this was a big one for me was there was a time that I couldn't recognize. In my head, what felt like it was life giving to me or was draining me. And there were certain people in my life that were draining me and I had to make, I had to start to listen to my body because otherwise I would end up recovering for days after spending time with somebody who just dreamed the life out of me, you know? And it, and it was, it wasn't about not loving them anymore. It was a. Loving myself enough to know that, that, and again, I'm putting my hand up my heart, loving myself enough to know that I needed to love them from afar. Kass: Yeah, absolutely. And that might doesn't have to be forever like the house. Right. It just might be in that moment. And there's just so many other things, like how much are we aware perhaps? Of how they're feeling about themselves. You know, there's so many questions in there and it might be someone that is great for us for doing one thing, but we don't have to spend the time with them. I always use the Cobra. I don't know. As an example, I can love the they're so beautiful. The Cobra snakes, and they they're a bit poisonous.. Okay. So, um, but because they're poisonous, does that mean you have to exclude them and reject them, know, you know, be in your car with your window rolled up and still enjoy that the absolute beauty and the way that they. Come up and with their expand their, you know, their bodies that doesn't have to mean you have to bring them home. So they'd get banked for us. Um, and it might be an awareness of, Hmm. Maybe I should roll up the window. Ratiate you know, um, yeah. Their presence and their, their contribution. Yeah. Yeah, so Monica: Kass. I know we only have a minute or so left and I would really love for you to share with our listeners. How would you love for them to find you engage with you? You know, just anything you want to say. Kass: Absolutely. Well, of course, there's the, I would love these three steps. This three steps program I'm doing is just amazing. That's step in, step up, step out in various areas of your life. And so that's on three steps dot U S website and, and every month is a different topic. And so, and then, um, kass thomas.com has all of that on there, and also with dancing with riches. So it's in Spanish and in English and French now. And, um, and the seven steps to follow is communication. My first short little teeny, teeny book, there's a teacher's program too, but that is in 20 languages. So, Hey, maybe if you want to communicate in different lines. You can get the English version of that really small teeny book and look at a lot of people are doing that, looking at another language and, and opening up their world to more languages, more people, more cultures, more countries, more abundance. Yeah. Monica: Yeah. So many more possibilities there. I love that. I absolutely love that. Well, Kass, it has been such a pleasure. Thank you. You are so full of light. I so appreciate you and look forward to, you know, another episode together soon, Kass: it takes one to know one and you are delicious and delightful. Thank you so much. Monica: Thank you. And for our listeners, I'll be sure to put all of Kass's links in the show notes. And until next time more to be revealed, we hope you enjoyed this episode. For more information, please visit us@jointherevelation.com and be sure to download our free gift, subscribe to our mailing list or leave us a review on iTunes. We thank you for your generous listening and as always more to be revealed.